1.0NEABPD ISRAELhttps://neabpd-dev.niziilan.co.il/en/Meshulam Gotliebhttps://neabpd-dev.niziilan.co.il/en/author/meshulam/rich600338<blockquote class="wp-embedded-content" data-secret="OF8TpPtOky"><a href="https://neabpd-dev.niziilan.co.il/en/articles/roadblocks-adopting-skills-doormat/">Roadblocks to Adopting the Skills: Am I a Doormat?</a></blockquote><iframe sandbox="allow-scripts" security="restricted" src="https://neabpd-dev.niziilan.co.il/en/articles/roadblocks-adopting-skills-doormat/embed/#?secret=OF8TpPtOky" width="600" height="338" title="“Roadblocks to Adopting the Skills: Am I a Doormat?” — NEABPD ISRAEL" data-secret="OF8TpPtOky" frameborder="0" marginwidth="0" marginheight="0" scrolling="no" class="wp-embedded-content"></iframe><script type="text/javascript"> /*! This file is auto-generated */ !function(c,d){"use strict";var e=!1,o=!1;if(d.querySelector)if(c.addEventListener)e=!0;if(c.wp=c.wp||{},c.wp.receiveEmbedMessage);else if(c.wp.receiveEmbedMessage=function(e){var t=e.data;if(!t);else if(!(t.secret||t.message||t.value));else if(/[^a-zA-Z0-9]/.test(t.secret));else{for(var r,s,a,i=d.querySelectorAll('iframe[data-secret="'+t.secret+'"]'),n=d.querySelectorAll('blockquote[data-secret="'+t.secret+'"]'),o=new RegExp("^https?:$","i"),l=0;l<n.length;l++)n[l].style.display="none";for(l=0;l<i.length;l++)if(r=i[l],e.source!==r.contentWindow);else{if(r.removeAttribute("style"),"height"===t.message){if(1e3<(s=parseInt(t.value,10)))s=1e3;else if(~~s<200)s=200;r.height=s}if("link"===t.message)if(s=d.createElement("a"),a=d.createElement("a"),s.href=r.getAttribute("src"),a.href=t.value,!o.test(a.protocol));else if(a.host===s.host)if(d.activeElement===r)c.top.location.href=t.value}}},e)c.addEventListener("message",c.wp.receiveEmbedMessage,!1),d.addEventListener("DOMContentLoaded",t,!1),c.addEventListener("load",t,!1);function t(){if(o);else{o=!0;for(var e,t,r,s=-1!==navigator.appVersion.indexOf("MSIE 10"),a=!!navigator.userAgent.match(/Trident.*rv:11\./),i=d.querySelectorAll("iframe.wp-embedded-content"),n=0;n<i.length;n++){if(!(r=(t=i[n]).getAttribute("data-secret")))r=Math.random().toString(36).substr(2,10),t.src+="#?secret="+r,t.setAttribute("data-secret",r);if(s||a)(e=t.cloneNode(!0)).removeAttribute("security"),t.parentNode.replaceChild(e,t);t.contentWindow.postMessage({message:"ready",secret:r},"*")}}}}(window,document); </script> Am I Doormat—A People Pleaser? By acting effectively—by validating my daughter’s or husband’s emotions and/or by accepting that I cannot change them right now—I feel like I am denying my own emotions and letting people walk all over me! For family members who have spent many years denying their own emotions and letting their spouse or mentally ill child walk